Lissi's Bench

Alissa (Lissi) was a beautiful ,strong & courageous young woman whose heart was devoted to saving others, but tragically, she lost her battle with depression. At just 9 years old, she saved her first life, pulling a drowning little girl from the water when no one else noticed. Years later, at 16, against her mother’s wishes, Lissi dove into the treacherous Kern River to rescue a man from drowning. After performing CPR, the man awoke, thinking he’d been saved by an angel.

Lissi’s selfless bravery didn’t stop there. From the age of 16 until 24, she worked as a lifeguard, while also pursuing her dream of becoming a Registered Nurse, despite the challenges of a learning disability. Her life’s purpose was clear: to save and uplift others.

But even heroes need help. Lissi, despite her strength and courage, struggled with depression—a silent battle that too many face alone. Her passing is a reminder of how critical it is to reach out for support when depression hits. It’s okay to seek help, to lean on others, and to prioritize mental health. No one should have to fight that battle alone.

Though Lissi is no longer with us physically, her legacy continues. Through “Lissi’s Bench,” we aim to honor her mission in life by providing a space where those who are struggling can find comfort, support, and hope—just as Lissi would have wanted.